{"id":12296,"date":"2020-02-23T22:57:58","date_gmt":"2020-02-24T04:57:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.amyreesanderson.com\/blog\/?p=12296"},"modified":"2020-02-23T22:58:33","modified_gmt":"2020-02-24T04:58:33","slug":"its-up-to-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.amyreesanderson.com\/blog\/its-up-to-you\/","title":{"rendered":"It&#8217;s Up To You"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p> &#8220;You are the fellow that has to decide<br> Whether you&#8217;ll do it or toss it aside.<br> You are the fellow who makes up your mind<br> Whether you&#8217;ll lead or will linger behind<br> Whether you&#8217;ll try for the goal that&#8217;s afar<br> Or just be contented to stay where you are.<br> Take it or leave it. Here&#8217;s something to do!<br> Just think it over \u2014 It&#8217;s all up to you!<br> <br> What do you wish? To be known as a shirk,<br> Known as a good man who&#8217;s willing to work,<br> Scorned for a loafer or praised by your chief,<br> Rich man or poor man or beggar or thief?<br> Eager or earnest or dull through the day,<br> Honest or crooked? It&#8217;s you who must say!<br> You must decide in the face of the test<br> Whether you&#8217;ll shirk it or give it your best.<br> <br> Nobody here will compel you to rise;<br> No one will force you to open your eyes;<br> No one will answer for you yes or no,<br> Whether to stay there or whether to go.<br> Life is a game, but it&#8217;s you who must say,<br> Whether as cheat or as sportsman you&#8217;ll play.<br> Fate may betray you, but you settle first<br> Whether to live to your best or your worst.<br> <br> So, whatever it is you are wanting to be,<br> Remember, to fashion the choice you are free.<br> Kindly or selfish, or gentle or strong,<br> Keeping the right way or taking the wrong,<br> Careless of honor or guarding your pride,<br> All these are questions which you must decide.<br> Yours the selection, whichever you do;<br> The thing men call character&#8217;s all up to you!&#8221;   (written by Edgar A. Guest)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That poem is a great reminder that while there are many things in this life that we can&#8217;t control, the one thing we always have complete control over is the type of person we are going to be&#8230;we choose our character&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Choose to be AWESOME!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>~Amy Rees Anderson (author of the book \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/What-Awesome-Looks-Like-Business\/dp\/1946633763\">What Awesome Looks Like: How To Excel in Business &amp; Life<\/a>\u201d ) <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;You are the fellow that has to decide Whether you&#8217;ll do it or toss it aside. You are the fellow who makes up your mind Whether you&#8217;ll lead or will linger behind Whether you&#8217;ll try for the goal that&#8217;s afar Or just be contented to stay where you are. Take it or leave it. 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