{"id":2768,"date":"2013-03-28T17:04:42","date_gmt":"2013-03-28T23:04:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.amyreesanderson.com\/blog\/?p=2768"},"modified":"2013-03-28T23:28:29","modified_gmt":"2013-03-29T05:28:29","slug":"be-happy-to-be-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.amyreesanderson.com\/blog\/be-happy-to-be-you\/","title":{"rendered":"Be Happy To Be You!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever been flipping through a magazine and come to the picture perfect person staring back at you and thought to yourself, \u201cI wish I looked like her\/him\u201d.\u00a0 Or have you watched a famous people on the television being interviewed about their fame and fortune and thought to yourself \u201cI wish I had their life.\u201d \u00a0It could even be a friend or neighbor who you look up to in your life and often think to yourself, \u201cI wish I could be her\/him, they are so amazing.\u201d\u00a0 I think most all of us have had those \u201cI wish I was ____\u201d moments at one point or another in our lives.<\/p>\n<p>I, for one, have had plenty of those moments.\u00a0 For example, in my years as a single mom to two kids there were lots of times when I would see happily married families where the mom was able to stay home and be a full-time mom with her kids, rather than having to go to work every day and be away from her kids, that I would think \u201cI wish I had her life, happily married, and home with her kids.\u201d\u00a0 And I can recall plenty of times when I would be reading a magazine and see someone drop dead gorgeous and think \u201cI wish I could look just like her!\u201d (the sad part is I was typically sitting on a coach eating chips in my sweats at those moments\u2026low points\u2026what can I say\u2026.) \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p>Yes, I had those moments until one day when I came across this quote:<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft  wp-image-2769\" alt=\"be happy to be you\" src=\"https:\/\/www.amyreesanderson.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/be-happy-to-be-you.jpg\" width=\"443\" height=\"443\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.amyreesanderson.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/be-happy-to-be-you.jpg 554w, https:\/\/www.amyreesanderson.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/be-happy-to-be-you-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.amyreesanderson.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/be-happy-to-be-you-300x300.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 443px) 100vw, 443px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>For some reason this quote really struck me. In all the times I had wished to be someone else (and trust me when I say I had many of them), I had never once stop to think that perhaps someone else may have actually thought that way about me.\u00a0 And I would guess that those of you reading this blog have likely not stopped to think that someone else out there may be thinking that exact way about you.\u00a0 They may be looking up to you, admiring you, and thinking \u201cI wish I was _(your name here)_\u201d.\u00a0 It seems like a crazy thought when you consider your name in those parentheses, yet the reality is that this very well might be the case.\u00a0 You just never know who is looking at you and your life and thinking that they would give anything to be in your situation, with your [brains, looks, talent, smile, success, family, home, spouse, kids, car, spirit, health, humor, heart, abilities, depth, ..\u2026.]. The fact is that every single one of us has something that others admire about us and it\u2019s really important to remember that because remembering that is what will help us to stay happy and grateful for the things we have, rather than focusing on the things we don\u2019t have.<\/p>\n<p>I personally think that looking up to other people is a good thing because it can serve as a fantastic motivator that drives us to better ourselves &#8211; but it\u2019s important that we don\u2019t let admiration cross over to actually wishing we were someone else.\u00a0 We should be happy that we are who we are, because every one of us is totally unique and God made us who we are for a reason &#8211; every talent and gift He gave us was to help us fulfill our individual purpose in this life.\u00a0 If we were anyone else then we couldn\u2019t fulfill that purpose because we wouldn\u2019t have those same gifts and talents that are uniquely ours. \u00a0Knowing that should make us grateful and happy that we are who we are, cause if He saw value in us and our purpose, then we sure as heck should to \u2013 and, last I checked, He is never wrong :)\u2026.so trust that!<\/p>\n<p><strong>BE HAPPY TO BE YOU today \u2013 be grateful for all the \u201camazingness\u201d that is YOU! Others are watching and admiring you, so never forget to BE YOUR BEST YOU!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>~Amy\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0<strong>P.S. 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