{"id":3224,"date":"2013-06-03T22:44:05","date_gmt":"2013-06-04T04:44:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.amyreesanderson.com\/blog\/?p=3224"},"modified":"2013-06-03T22:50:30","modified_gmt":"2013-06-04T04:50:30","slug":"the-wisdom-of-lessons-others-have-learned","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.amyreesanderson.com\/blog\/the-wisdom-of-lessons-others-have-learned\/","title":{"rendered":"The Wisdom of Lessons Others Have Learned"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As I was looking through some old files tonight I came across a document that contained life lessons that were shared from different people \u2013 the document doesn\u2019t show the names of the people that shared these so I can\u2019t list them for you, but the lessons shared were awesome lessons and very inspiring to me.\u00a0 Each \u201cI\u2019ve learned\u201d contains wisdom that we can all learn from so I wanted to share the list with all of you:<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve learned that you can keep going long after you can&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve learned that it&#8217;s taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve learned that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve learned that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve learned that two people can look at the same thing and see something totally different.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you&#8217;re down, will be the ones to help you get back up.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve learned that sometimes when I feel I may have the right to be angry it doesn&#8217;t give me the right to be cruel.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you&#8217;ve had and what you&#8217;ve learned from them, and less to do with how many years you have lived.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve learned that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve learned that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve learned that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you you will find the strength to help.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve learned that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don&#8217;t even know you.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve learned that it isn&#8217;t always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve learned that it&#8217;s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.<\/p>\n<p><b>&#8212;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s nice to try and take the wisdom others share and incorporate it into our own lives.\u00a0 I have found that it is much easier to learn from others mistakes than to have to make them ourselves so I try to learn from as many sources as possible!\u00a0 Have a great day!<\/p>\n<p>~Amy<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As I was looking through some old files tonight I came across a document that contained life lessons that were shared from different people \u2013 the document doesn\u2019t show the names of the people that shared these so I can\u2019t list them for you, but the lessons shared were awesome lessons and very inspiring to [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":2580,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[248,168,697,46,1203,1204,1201,1195,1197,1200,210,83,1202,102,189,591,7,244,65,788,1199,152,34,464,137,38,232,64,35,1198,728,150,1194,134,1196,544,1193,112,149,281,84,866],"class_list":["post-3224","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-ability","tag-adversity","tag-anger","tag-attitude","tag-care","tag-caring","tag-circumstances","tag-consequence","tag-cruel","tag-decent","tag-do-the-right-thing","tag-experience","tag-forgiven","tag-forgiveness","tag-friends","tag-friendship","tag-future","tag-grateful","tag-gratitude","tag-hero","tag-human-being","tag-impact","tag-integrity","tag-joy","tag-kindness","tag-leadership","tag-lessons","tag-life","tag-love","tag-maturity","tag-mistakes","tag-others","tag-perserverance","tag-perspective","tag-relationship","tag-relationships","tag-responsible","tag-self-improvement","tag-success","tag-trials","tag-trust","tag-wisdom"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.amyreesanderson.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3224","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.amyreesanderson.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.amyreesanderson.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.amyreesanderson.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.amyreesanderson.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3224"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.amyreesanderson.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3224\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3226,"href":"https:\/\/www.amyreesanderson.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3224\/revisions\/3226"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.amyreesanderson.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2580"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.amyreesanderson.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3224"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.amyreesanderson.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3224"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.amyreesanderson.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3224"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}