I came across an article written by a woman named Patricia Davis in which she\u00a0had put together\u00a0a list of advice of all the things she wanted to pass on to younger women.\u00a0 I think her advice is amazing and we should share her advice with every young woman we know, whether its a daughter, a\u00a0sister, a grand-daughter, a niece, a neighbor, or a friend.\u00a0\u00a0Here is her advice:<\/p>\n
1. You are at least ten times prettier than you think you are. That holds true no matter how pretty you already think you are! Don\u2019t believe me? Ask your mother\/auntie\/grannie if she thought she was pretty when she was twenty. She\u2019ll say no. Then find a photo of her at that age. See what I mean?<\/p>\n
2. The only thing you should be faking is confidence. If you don\u2019t have it yet, pretend you do. In every new situation, pretend you\u2019re not nervous, pretend you\u2019re not afraid. After a few times doing this, the pretend part disappears.<\/p>\n
3. Want to try something new like painting, skiing, running your own business? Go to the library and borrow ten different books on the subject. Skim through them all, find the ones that have the most vital information and study them. Then see number 2.<\/p>\n
4. No matter how old you get, remember what it was like to be a nine-year old girl. Remember the feeling of freedom. If you\u2019ve already forgotten, do a cartwheel. You can so still do one. Savor that feeling. Wake up with it every day. You\u2019ll stay young until the day you die.<\/p>\n
5. In the same vein, cut or potted flowers are never a waste of money. Because every time we glance at them, they remind us how much beauty there can be in the world.<\/p>\n
6. Speaking of money, starting right this moment, whether you\u2019re twenty or sixty, you can change your finances around. Don\u2019t leave someone else completely in charge, whether it\u2019s your husband, partner, parents, or banker. Become financially savvy. Financial independence gives you the freedom to walk away from many bad situations. How do you know you\u2019re in bad situation? See number seven.<\/p>\n
7. If your stomach hurts and you haven\u2019t got a virus, you\u2019re in a bad situation. Before you know what it is, your stomach always does. Give yourself some time to ponder what it might be that\u2019s making your stomach hurt. Chances are you already do know, you just don\u2019t want to believe it, for some reason. You can ignore advice from your friends, even your own brain, but you can\u2019t ignore your stomach, because the stomach never lies.<\/p>\n
8. When meeting someone new and he or she seems to be behaving like a jerk, show compassion first. If after you display your sincere compassion, they are still acting like a jerk, walk away. If they follow you, call the police.<\/p>\n
9. Wear sunscreen on your face, neck, and hands every day, winter and summer. I don\u2019t care how dark your skin naturally is. Wear it. You\u2019ll remember me when you look in the mirror at age fifty. Always keep in mind that Your body is directly connected to your spirit. Look after your body. Exercise, floss, and brush your teeth. Put nothing in your body that can permanently harm your spirit.<\/p>\n
10. And when you find a man and he\u2019s the right man\u2026meaning your stomach doesn\u2019t hurt, he\u2019s smiling at you, he knows your name, he treats you kind, he shows you respect\u00a0 \u2013 enjoy it!\u00a0 I promise he is not at all thinking about how fat your thighs look.<\/p>\n
What brilliant advice Patricia gives!\u00a0 Be sure to pass it on to the young women in your life.\u00a0 Heck, even us old ladies could benefit from her advice :).\u00a0 Have a wonderful Wednesday!<\/p>\n
~Amy<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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