{"id":7019,"date":"2016-07-18T17:00:45","date_gmt":"2016-07-18T23:00:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.amyreesanderson.com\/blog\/?p=7019"},"modified":"2016-07-14T00:34:43","modified_gmt":"2016-07-14T06:34:43","slug":"lessons-on-character-change-hardships-and-blessings-part-two-of-five","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.amyreesanderson.com\/blog\/lessons-on-character-change-hardships-and-blessings-part-two-of-five\/","title":{"rendered":"Lessons on Character, Change, Hardships and Blessings  (Part 2 of 5)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Today is a continuation of yesterday&#8217;s blog sharing some favorite snippets of my daughter Ashley&#8217;s emails she has sent home over the course of her 18 month mission with the valuable life lesons she was learning along the way &#8211; these lessons are such relevant lessons for all of our lives and I hope you enjoy reading them. They are continuing from yesterday&#8217;s blog in chronological order to help illustrate the growth that takes place over the 18 months of serving others:<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;FIVE MONTHS IN &#8211; (IT\u2019S THE SMALL THINGS THAT BUILD CHARACTER)\u00a0\u00a0 July 13 2015<\/p>\n<p>Subject line: Lose yourself \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0That moment when one of Eminem&#8217;s best lyrics fits perfectly as the subject line for an LDS mission email home. #lifegoals #winning<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; We ran into a lot of really cool character building moments this week. I&#8217;m learning that it&#8217;s NOT the big things that build us. But the TINY minuscule things. Like when a member asked us to come help her move some furniture around&#8230; then two hours later she wanted to switch it all back again! At that very moment I had to stand back and think, &#8220;dude. am i telling her the couch looks good here just cuz i wanna get outta here!? Or am i really trying to help this woman feel good about her house and make it look good.&#8221;&#8230;. SOOOO SMALL! right!? hahah! but it&#8217;s all about our intentions and those TINY character building moments! <u>Everything out of love<\/u>!<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">**I love the message of that email because it is a simple example that every single one of us can relate to\u2026especially the husbands who have ever moved furniture for their wives\u2026.**<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;SIX MONTHS \u2013 1\/3 OF THE WAY THROUGH- (CHANGE AND AGENCY)\u00a0\u00a0 July 20 2015<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8220;When you do what you&#8217;ve did, you get what you&#8217;ve got!&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This week I&#8217;ve studied a lot about CHANGE! awe yes. Change. The ironic\u00a0concept that we hate in the moment, but when we look back are are\u00a0happy we did it\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Another thing I&#8217;ve been studying about is our will. Because God loves us so much, He gave us agency and <strong><u>our will<\/u><\/strong>. That is the <u>ONE thing that we have, that God doesn&#8217;t already<\/u>. So when we give our complete WILL to Him, we have given God EVERYTHING\u2026\u2026\u2026And it&#8217;s as easy as a change of mind! #2seconds!<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;SEVEN MONTHS &#8211;\u00a0 (BLESSINGS OUTWEIGH HARDSHIPS)\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Sept 13 2015<\/p>\n<p>So this week we have been completely exhausted&#8230; have huge bags under our eyes&#8230; Every now and then we twitch a little&#8230; And the tension in our neck and shoulders from the stress is killer&#8230;. And yet somehow this is the HAPPIEST IVE EVER BEEN!!!<\/p>\n<p>The blessings on missions FAR outweigh the hardships. I have never regretted my decision to serve a mission for two seconds.. and I know I never will! Once again<u>.. If anyone is on the fence about serving&#8230; GO<\/u>! It truly has been the best time for my life so far. I am so grateful for my savior Jesus Christ! I know he lives. I know he loves us. He gives us new opportunities every single day, even when we disappoint him. He is our perfect example. I am grateful that he pushed me just far enough to be able to turn in my papers to serve a mission. I know that a lot of the time that is how He works. No strikes of lightning.. No earthquake shaking moments&#8230; <strong>He taps the domino just light enough for it to be able to start rolling.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">**Can you see why I love these weekly emails??? They have blessed my life so much to read them and be inspired by them. I hope they are blessing your lives too!\u00a0 Tomorrow I will share the final snippets of her emails with you&#8230;.and tomorrow MY BABY GIRL COMES HOME!!!!<\/span><\/p>\n<p>~Amy Rees Anderson<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Today is a continuation of yesterday&#8217;s blog sharing some favorite snippets of my daughter Ashley&#8217;s emails she has sent home over the course of her 18 month mission with the valuable life lesons she was learning along the way &#8211; these lessons are such relevant lessons for all of our lives and I hope you [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":6683,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[9683,395,501,500,5203,6731,1327,46,550,410,63,91,155,1151,999,9778,3552,287,6477,1010,10383,164,9682,1160,2928,92,1811,51,29,4387,1477,10360,1744,94,4380,276,10358,722,1501,3369,233,296,4881,35,3441,351,1769,242,10359,6138,1416,145,1812,483,6807,915,4266,10365,10356,10357],"class_list":["post-7019","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-18-months","tag-amy-rees-anderson","tag-appreciate","tag-appreciation","tag-arkansas-little-rock-mission","tag-ashley-anderson","tag-ashley-lewis","tag-attitude","tag-blessed","tag-blessing","tag-blessings","tag-change","tag-character","tag-charity","tag-child","tag-closer","tag-coming-home","tag-communication","tag-discourage","tag-distance","tag-domino","tag-effort","tag-eighteen-months","tag-encourage","tag-excited","tag-excitement","tag-experiences","tag-family","tag-god","tag-grace","tag-grow","tag-grow-closer","tag-grow-up","tag-growth","tag-hardships","tag-heavenly-father","tag-heavenly-parents","tag-humility","tag-jesus-christ","tag-lds-mission","tag-learn","tag-lesson","tag-life-experience","tag-love","tag-mature","tag-missionary","tag-parent","tag-parenting","tag-proxy","tag-resolve","tag-serve","tag-service","tag-taught","tag-teach","tag-testify","tag-the-church-of-jesus-christ-of-latter-day-saints","tag-two-years","tag-weekly-email","tag-weekly-letters","tag-write-home"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.amyreesanderson.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7019","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.amyreesanderson.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.amyreesanderson.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.amyreesanderson.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.amyreesanderson.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7019"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/www.amyreesanderson.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7019\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7030,"href":"https:\/\/www.amyreesanderson.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7019\/revisions\/7030"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.amyreesanderson.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6683"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.amyreesanderson.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7019"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.amyreesanderson.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7019"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.amyreesanderson.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7019"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}