I’m a firm believer in competing against our own best selves over trying to compete with other people.\u00a0 That being said, I am all about having fun friendly competitions once in awhile because they are just a great way to motivate yourself.\u00a0 Growing up as a middle child in a family with ten children it was like a version of the Hunger Games every night as we sat down to our dinner table. The competition for which child was going to get the biggest slice of Totino’s pizza on Friday nights started as the blessing being said for the food began. If my parents had ever opened their eyes during one of those prayers they would have seen their children each with one eye open staring each other down as each licked their fingers and touched a slice of pizza on the tray for all of the other siblings to see that they were first to mark claim on the slices that would be theirs once the prayer was done. The desire to get our fair share of pizza in this dinnertime competition was total motivation to work on developing some mad ninja skills in order to beat the other siblings in the race to claim a slice.<\/p>\n
Whether it was playing board games, or card games, kick-the-can out in the yard, we were always competing with one another. I remember on Sundays when church got out some of us would ride home from church with Dad in his car and the rest of us would ride home with Mom in her car, both screaming and yelling all the way home that we had to beat the other car home so we could have the bragging rights of yelling \u201cWe bate, we bate\u2026\u201d (hey we were little kids so let\u2019s get judgey about our poor grammar \ud83d\ude42 ).\u00a0 There was never any feelings of malice toward one another in those Sunday competitions \u2013 they were something we looked forward to and it was exciting and fun to be a part of our Sunday \u201crace\u201d home. And the winning team would always do a little happy dance while the losing team would roll their eyes and start smack talking about how they were going to win next week\u2019s race home.<\/p>\n
Friendly competition is a great thing. It\u2019s motivating! It makes us want to try harder and it drives us to become better. And let\u2019s face it \u2013 when it\u2019s a friendly competition it is just a whole lot of FUN!\u00a0 Whether you win or lose in a friendly competition you are going to have fun! You are going to be motivated to prepare and work hard and then put your heart into it, because that is the motivating power a friendly competition has!\u00a0 And being motivated to accomplish something is fun and exciting. But I will also admit that it is extra fun when you WIN!<\/p>\n
For example, every time I play Chess with my husband and win, and every time I play Scrabble with my friend Shani or my friend Spence and win (it would be more accurate to say I actually destroy them at Scrabble\u2026tee hee\u2026.), and every time I win at Cover Your Assets card game against my sister-in-law Michele, and every time my BYU sports teams win games against my little brother Andy\u2019s alma mater’s sports teams – it’s just so much fun!\u00a0 Frankly beating my little brother Andy at any game is fun because he is the king smack talker before\/during\/after every game, so whenever you win a competition against him its like an extra dose of FUN!<\/p>\n
Take the other night, I sat down to play\u00a0 the Xbox video game Call of Duty against my son and my husband and for the first time ever, I WON!!! And it was SO MUCH FUN!!!\u00a0 You have to know that I am always the loser at that game so watching my son\u2019s face when he saw I had actually beat him by winning the game was just a glorious moment for me!\u00a0 I was SO excited I even took out my iphone to capture a photo of the TV screen that showed my winning score above his and I can\u2019t wait to text that photo to him every few days for the foreseeable future just to remind him that “I BATE! I BATE!”<\/p>\n
If you need a little motivation in life then start a few friendly competitions with other people. Challenge each other to try and achieve something awesome. And either come up with a prize they can win or offer up bragging rights to the top performer as a way to generate more excitement around it. Then put your whole effort into preparing and getting ready for it, then add some lighthearted smack talking (the positive kind) and know that win or lose you still be coming out ahead because you\u2019ll have motivated yourself to do more and work harder at improving….and best of all you’ll have experienced joy and fun along the way.<\/p>\n
~Amy Rees Anderson<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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