A Simple Gesture

Mark was walking home from school one day when he noticed the boy ahead of him had tripped and dropped all of the books he was carrying, along with two sweaters, a baseball hat, a glove and a small tape recorder. Mark knelt down and helped the boy pick up the scattered articles. Since they were going the same way, he helped to carry part of the burden. As they walked Mark discovered the boy’s name was Bill, that he loved video games, baseball and history, that he was having lots of trouble with his other subjects and that he had just broken up with his girlfriend.

     They arrived at Bill’s home first and Mark was invited in for a Coke and to watch some television. The afternoon passed pleasantly with a few laughs and some shared small talk, then Mark went home. They continued to see each other around school, had lunch together once or twice, then both graduated from junior high school. They ended up in the same high school where they had brief contacts over the years. Finally the long awaited senior year came, and three weeks before graduation, Bill asked Mark if they could talk.

     Bill reminded him of the day years ago when they had first met. “Do you ever wonder why I was carrying so many things home that day?” asked Bill. “You see, I cleaned out my locker because I didn’t want to leave a mess for anyone else. I had stored away some of my mother’s sleeping pills and I was going home to commit suicide. But after we spent some time together talking and laughing, I realized that if I had killed myself, I would have missed that time and so many others they might follow. So you see, Mark, when you picked up by books that day, you did a lot more. You saved my life.”

John W. Schlatter (as published in Chicken Soup for the Soul)

My son shared that story with me years ago and hearing it for the first time really touched me. It made me think how often in life we have these opportunities to perform the smallest acts of service that might ultimately affect other’s lives in ways we cannot even begin to imagine. Just as Mark’s simple act of picking up spilt books and spending a few minutes talking to someone who was having a rough day ended up literally saving Bill’s life, we too never know when our kind word or a smile will have a profound impact on someone else’s life.

This story inspires me to want to be more aware of those little opportunities to serve others and to never underestimate the impact we might have in the life of another.

Have a fantastic start to your week everyone!


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