Amy Rees Anderson

Our life tomorrow is the result of our attitudes and the choices we make today

Each day we go through life making choices. Sometimes they are carefully thought through choices and sometimes they are impulsive. Sometimes we make them based on what we want for the future and sometimes we make them based on what we want right now. And while we all get to make our own choices, we don’t get to choose what the consequences of those choices will be. That’s why it is so important to make the best choices we can each day, living with integrity, and doing our best to do the right things.  Each day we do that we lay the groundwork for a brighter future ahead because everything we do today is setting the stage for what our tomorrow will be. Here’s a story that illustrates that perfectly:

Life is a Do-It-Yourself Project

An elderly carpenter was ready to retire. He told his employer contractor of his plans to leave the house building business and live a more leisurely life with his wife enjoying his extended family. He would miss the paycheck, but he needed to retire. They could get by.

The contractor was sorry to see his good worker go and asked if he could build just one more house as a personal favor. The carpenter said yes, but in time it was easy to see that his heart was not in his work. He resorted to shoddy workmanship and used inferior materials.

It was an unfortunate way to end his career. When the carpenter finished his work and the builder came to inspect the house, the contractor handed the front door key to the carpenter. “This is your house,” he said, “my gift to you.” What a shock! What a shame! If he had only known he was building his own house, he would have done it all so differently. Now he had to live in the home he had built none too well.

So it is with us. We build our lives in a distracted way, reacting rather than acting, willing to put up less than the best. At important points we do not give the job our best effort. Then with a shock we look at the situation we have created and find that we are now living in the house we have built. If we had realized that we would have done it differently.

Think of yourself as the carpenter. Think about your house. Each day you hammer a nail, place a board, or erect a wall. Build wisely.

 It is the only life you will ever build. Even if you live it for only one day more, that day deserves to be lived graciously and with dignity.

The plaque on the wall says, “Life is a do-it-yourself project.” Who could say it more clearly? Your life today is the result of your attitudes and choices in the past. Your life tomorrow will be the result of your attitudes and the choices you make today.

Have an incredible day!

~Amy

2 Comments

  • RS says:

    Very profound. Thanks for posting it.

  • Navin Mirania (Mirania Data Systems) says:

    Very nice

    I would like to add:

    Fault is past tense.
    Responsibility is present tense.

    Fault results from choices that have already been made. Responsibility results from the choices you’re currently making, every second of every day.

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